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A Marine greets his family at Marine Corps Air Station Beaufort, S.C., Nov. 21, after returning from a seven-month deployment. The Marine is assigned to Marine All-Weather Fighter Attack Squadron 224, which supported combat operations in the U.S. Central Command area of operations. Marine Corps photo by Lance Cpl. Terry Haynes III

Dare we say it? Thanksgiving is one of the remaining holidays with a clear central purpose. Consider the things you are thankful for … and eat! For years and years, and to this day, our nation has yet to veer from the main goal of Thanksgiving. We gather, we consider our blessings and we partake of a glorious meal. (And Operation Homefront is honored to provide Holiday Meals for Military, like our recent events in Texas).

Retailers may try to invade, starting Black Friday sales earlier every year…but Americans hold fast to this turkey-licious tradition.

And when we consider all that we have to be thankful for, our military is always at the top of our short list! We’re fairly certain that whether your family serves in the military or not, you are likely to take a moment today to be grateful for the men and women who miss many a holiday, including Thanksgiving, to ensure their fellow Americans can rest easy at night. We do.

So, share this with your family today.

Here are 3 reasons to be thankful for our military. These may not be the first time you’ve considered them, but Thanksgiving gives us an opportunity to truly appreciate those who serve in our Armed Forces.

Two children excitedly welcome home their father and the crew of the attack submarine USS Norfolk from a six-month deployment during a homecoming ceremony on Naval Station Norfolk, Va. Navy photo by Petty Officer 1st Class Kim Williams

1. What they’ve missed. There is a reason we all love military homecoming videos. Unless you’ve experienced, you can’t completely understand the feeling of leaving those you love behind. Or the joy of returning home to them. Thanksgiving isn’t the only holiday many of our service members have spent on foreign soil in unfamiliar surroundings. Those are moments with sons, daughters, spouses and family that can never be recovered. For every peaceful day Americans get to experience with loved ones nearby, we have our military to thank.

2. Courage in the face of the unknown. Those who serve have a mission. They work as a unit. But the whole point of having a strong military is outmaneuvering those who threaten the freedoms we enjoy. While they are trained for difficult situations, that doesn’t mean it doesn’t cause a certain amount of trepidation – for the service members and their families who may not sleep from the weight of worry. But our service members persevere through those hard days. And for those who carry the wounds of war, they are on a journey with an unknown conclusion. They have certainly earned our support.

Pfc. Jordan Wagner, an infantryman with the 82nd Airborne Division’s 1st Brigade Combat Team, greets loved ones during a homecoming ceremony at Pope Army Airfield, Fort Bragg, N.C. (U.S. Army photo by Sgt. Michael J. MacLeod)

3. They choose to serve. Only about 1 in 4 of those between the ages of 17-23 years qualify for military service. And because we have a volunteer force, of those who qualify, not everyone wants to serve in our military. Thank YOU to the brave men and women who chose a hard but noble way to spend your youth. You did it for your future but mostly, you did it for all of us!

For all you do, thank you!

Join Operation Homefront in our mission to build strong, stable, and secure military families through our Giving Strength initiative. This holiday season, we want to give strength to our military and veteran families. We’ve compiled a list of ways you can support, honor and serve our military.

A few easy ways:

1. Send a message of appreciation to our military.

2. Use our new Facebook frame to show that you join us in giving strength to our military.

3. Sign up to be a volunteer.

4. Give a gift in support of our military through one of our current needs.

May you and all our service members, veterans and their families, have a very Happy Thanksgiving! Thank you for all you do to keep our country strong.

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Air Force Staff Sgt. Story Parsons surprised her son Caleb Parsons, 2015 Coast Guard Child of the Year, with an unexpected return from Qatar. Caleb had been caring for his younger siblings while both parents were deployed.

Their success comes at a cost. As we come to the close of this year’s Month of the Military Child, and reflect upon the amazing young men and women we honor through our Military Child of the Year® Awards, that is what we must not forget.

We were reminded of this when we saw the look on the face of Caleb Parsons, 2015 Coast Guard Child of the Year, and his brothers and sister, when they saw their mom, Air Force Staff Sgt. Story Parsons. The joy, yes, but the relief and the gift of being just a kid again in the arms of mom.

One perfect moment in time. There are no to do lists, no countdowns, no worries…just now. Just the moment. And it was a short moment, as Staff Sgt. Parsons had less than 24 hours with her family and then she had to fly back to Qatar. Tears of joy turned quickly to tears of sadness, again. It comes with the territory, when one chooses to serve their country. The whole family serves too.

Via NBC Washington: West Point-bound Caleb Parsons was named Military Child of the Year for raising his younger siblings while his parents were both deployed. Kristin Wright reports from the award ceremony, where Caleb’s mother made a surprise return from Qatar.

Those kind of moments are one of the hardest sacrifices of being a military kid.The majority of the estimated 1.88 [1]million military children will experience that moment at least once. Some more than once. Some, a lot more than once. And some will never experience it again.

So while it is always great to see homecoming videos and surprises go viral, and join in the joy of the moment, it is important to remember that this moment is often coming at the end of a very long journey. A journey lasting six months, 12 months or more, with tears, and moments of fear and doubt and frustrations. Questioning of the fairness of it all.

Acknowledging these struggles is important because while we celebrate the extraordinary achievement of some military children in the face of adversity, we must always be aware that there are many who need our support to get through it. Anxiety, depression, trouble focusing, trouble sleeping are all challenges commonly reported by children of deployed military. Ensuring they have the resources they need to succeed is of paramount importance to the military community. The challenges and obstacles faced by the children of our military families are considerable and diverse. But working together, we can make a difference.

calebhug2At Operation Homefront, we understand that resiliency and stability often begins at home. If there are financial and other worries, it only creates a steeper hill to climb for the children. So we focus on strengthening foundations with our emergency financial and morale programs, such as our upcoming 10th annual Back-to-School Brigade. But there is more to be done, and you can help.

We’re certainly not alone in doing our part to support military kids and families. Right now, our friends at Blue Star Families are asking for input from military families on the issues that have the most impact on them. Share this link to their survey with every military family you know so their voice can be heard. The National Military Family Association is also a powerful voice for the broad issues impacting military families. The Military Child Education Coalition focuses on advocacy and outreach to ensure inclusive, quality educational opportunities for all military-connected children.

Footnote: Check out the Special Department of Defense Month of the Military Child page for stories and resources for and about our military kids.
[1] http://www.defense.gov/home/features/2015/0415_militarychild/

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